Hi Popescu, thanks for the support! 
But unfortunately I have to say that it’s only my fault because I thought I was reasoning with mentally elastic people, and therefore gave the context the right importance…
And instead I was TOTALLY wrong, because evidently for these people there are only two shades of color, or white or black, and instead sometimes in life, and therefore also in language (which is an expression of thought) things are much more complicated than that and therefore words can take on totally different connotations…
And it is always my fault that I wanted to involve this community in some of my personal life experiences, such as my love for hip-hop culture and consequently for all the culture of the black people, and this only for the sake of reasoning…
(ahh oops, and then excuse me so much if I shocked you with the story (by the way without vulgar language) of my girlfriend, I thought I was talking to grown up people, not babies or bigots…)
But obviously not all people like to drive the engines of reasoning, and they barricade themselves behind a banal and false respectability,
as that of feeling offended by a term coined by the alternative nerd community, of which they then take pride in being part, but of course this is not so!!!
So, thank you Popescu to have made yourself heard and to have somehow highlighted the superficiality of these people

And with the occasion of this post, I OFFICIALLY ask the team of /e/ to delete my account from this forum (but only this one, not Nextcloud).
Obviously I will continue to use and support /e/ with donations and publicity among my acquaintances, but I don’t want to deal with these kind of superficial, hypocritical people anymore, who don’t know how to reason and who only barricade themselves behind a computer to flag other people’s comments.
Ciao