I still tried to update. It’s gone. However, I think there should be a system to understand if the update is compatible, otherwise there is always the risk of going to the unpleasant situation of bootloop.
You don’t get update offers for updates not compatible in principle with your device.
But nobody will be able to guarantee you that a certain update will work on your own personal device. Things can go wrong in software, not everything is foreseeable or shows beforehand in tests.
Before you attempt any update, make a backup of all your important data (you should do this anyway from time to time), be prepared to be able to set up the phone again in a worst case scenario (don’t do updates when travelling and don’t do updates when in time constraints, for instance), and hope the worst case scenario will not hit you, as the chance for this to happen is rather slim … but not zero.